Loved Ones of Addicted Inidividuals Need Help, Too

Rachel’s bags were packed. The 14-year-old went to her mom and said she couldn’t live like this anymore. Her mom was so busy helping her dad deal with his alcoholism that Rachel felt like she had been abandoned; she was ready to leave home. But, Rachel and her mom talked, and Rachel jumped at the chance to attend Ala-Teen meetings.

“’Rachel’ said AlaTeen has helped her to gain an understanding of alcoholism, the disease. She was told, like cancer, it is an illness. But she struggled with that for a while. ‘Cancer isn’t something someone does to themselves. It’s not something they can control. Alcoholism is different. You do that to yourself.’ But she did come to terms with it. Alcoholism is a disease. And though she still is angry with her dad, she understands better and has a better attitude.” - Source: The Salem (OH) News

More importantly, Rachel doesn’t feel like she’s alone anymore. She now has the support of an entire group of people who are dealing with similar situations. Addicts need help. But so do their family members. The emotional and psychological toll of living with an addict is significant, and family members need support in order to deal with it properly.


 

Labels: addiction, treatment, family

Posted By: Stefanie Hamilton

Comments:

Greg Chant on 11/18/2010
Co-dependency is already a given when there is a family member battling addiction. Most of the other family members' posterity is exhausted so that they can provide better "care" to the addict, leaving them with lesser time to take care of themselves. Whether the days addiction cure exist or not, an effective addiction program should be able to provide therapy for all of the concern and affected.
CleanLiving87 on 11/3/2010
Spreading awareness and educating teens about alcohol abuse is important to not only prevent teen drinking, but to also understand why adults suffer from alcohol addiction. Like in the article, Rachel's attitude was changed towards her alcohol addicted father once she was educated about it. Instead of her being bitter towards her father, she can now be supportive towards his recovery process. Family support is very necessary when going through recovery.